For those who couldn’t make it to Primetime last night, we watched the first session of his series on Song of Solomon. Last night’s topic was attraction, from Song of Solomon 1:2-7.
Tommy talked about some really thought-provoking things and we had some great discussion afterwards.
Some things to ponder -
What are your non-negotiables in terms of a mate? Do you have an ideal person, and you won’t settle for anything lower? Are those traits that you are looking for character-based or based on physical things? Setting character standards helps clarify things when judging a mate (so you don’t get stuck thinking, “well, he’s not the most trustworthy person, but he sure has great eyes/hair/personality”)
What traits do you have to offer to a mate? If you were to write a personal, relationship resume for yourself, what would you include? Would you include the desirable aspects of your character? What are they?
In that same vein, a man (or woman) who does not exhibit good character while single (or dating) can’t be expected to exhibit good character when he is married. Tommy Nelson said something to the effect of (someone please update with the actual quote) “sin in the dark is always ugly.”
Please bring up other questions or comments from last night, even if you weren’t there.
Posted by Erica 
